A child that is born as in is not a property but a responsibility. That life must have come out of you but you do not own that life by any means. A young life is an opportunity for you to see, learn and appreciate the beauty of life but not for you to mould or alter them the way you want.
This may sound blunt but ask yourself, do you learn by listening or by observing and experiencing? And the answer is obvious!
Human nature by default learns and grows from experiences. And now the role of a parent in being "responsible" arises as to what the child is being exposed to and the ability to perceive the same. If that has to happen efficiently, first we need to look at ourselves and understand how efficient is our own perception. Because somebody who hates something will naturally prompt the child to hate it as well... If somebody who's ideology about gender is very narrow, will obviously try to distort the perception of the child as well... When somebody thinks that happiness and satisfaction is derived from outside sources will feed the child's mind with same ideology.
Take a small test, sit alone without anything to do on your terrace for 1/2 hour and see whether you are restless in your mind or absolutely happy and peaceful?
Where yourself cannot be happy and satisfied with your own company, expecting your child to do something for your happiness or expecting them to do something extraordinary in their life is a ridiculous expectation.
Not to forget that the world appears the way we perceive it and the idea about living in a particular way always comes from the outside environment. But if you are rational enough, you would only do what is needed best for your living.
Let us make a commitment to ourselves that unless you learn to live happily in your own company, there is no need to bring another life into existence. If this much is taken care of, the world will produce wonderful humas!
-love&light💕
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