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Change!



Then Nirbhaya, today Priyanka... These are simply known and heard names, thanks to the media but there are countless number of people of all genders who have faced and are still facing these type of crimes whose inhumanity is immeasurable!
The whole world wants a solution but is anybody actually working towards one?
What is actually a solution?
- A candle light march?
- Protest on the streets?
- Learn self defense?
- Draft a new law?
This list can go on and on. But the real question is did any of the so called "solutions" work!?
Well, yes! Nothing did and sadly nothing will...
We need to understand why a person behaves in a certain way before even thinking of a solution. In my opinion, nobody of sound mind is an idiot on this planet to go all out and kill another person. Talking about the recent event of Priyanka Reddy, once understand what must be going inside the minds of those who committed the crime. It is pure sexual frustration that made them go blind of all human behavior. And here comes the real question, why did they wait or what did they do till they became sexually "frustrated" ? What happened is unforgivable but what really needs to feel ashamed is our society!
We live in an environment where talking about the changes in one's own biology is considered shameful. How many families are open to discuss or atleast talk about the changes in behavior and the way we feel before and after puberty? No chemical reaction is same inside every individual, it varies. For some it is under control but unfortunately for some it is NOT. If one is observant enough, it is evident in a group of friends itself. When you are forced to shut up and act normal in your own family, this is something we can least expect from our society.
Many decades ago, people were married early in life so that they themselves can handle their biology (that gave birth to many other problems though) but today we don't want marriage until 30 because our ideologies have matured. But somehow everyone forgot that our biology is still the same.
Growth is one direction is always a disaster. As they say all-round development is important, even in one's life, with the dynamic changes in time and technology, mental growth is happening. At the same time physical growth is equally important. It cannot be forced or it's not something that can be taught, but has to happen voluntarily. Just like there are techniques to transform the mind, there are techniques to transform the physicality. Yoga is one such technique.
Where there is a will, there is a way. And the only way you can bring about a change is to change yourself first.

-love&light💕

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