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Butterflies!



Never fall for someone who gives you "butterflies in the stomach." The sensation of feeling butterflies in the stomach is a sign of nervousness and no where even near related to love.
Generally during nervousness attack the mind tries to find an escape from the situation. But when given some time, it will adjust and will find ways to survive through it. This is how it goes in everyday life.
But sometimes, rather rarely, when a person is trying to come for you which directly means that the person is only trying to get you for specific needs. Be it emotional, physical, psychological, financial or all of them. In this situation the mind only tries to understand and get familiar to that person. There's no way it can relax and handle the situation because the person ain't giving you that much time and so the immediate signaling happens through the stomach. This intense sign is what people call "butterflies in the stomach."
Since this happens towards a person and to 99% of us for the first time in life, we tend to misunderstand it as love. But in reality let me tell you, if that person is exhausted of all his/her needs, your existence really won't matter to them from the next moment itself.
Ain't this misunderstanding of a simple reaction inside you, the root cause of all the personal fights that happen between two people in the relationship!
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As the saying goes, "love is blind",
I say that love isn't blind. It's just you who didn't know what you felt and never had enough time to figure out what happened to yourself because this fancy world is always moving fast and moving forward.
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For once, be with the one who makes you feel nothing because everything you're looking for lies in stillness. Where you don't need a person but you are just a little more happier and a little more inclusive when that person is around, that is love!
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